The origin story to your kink

[Jennwrites]

When browsing through the community I see a lot of us have a wide array of kinks, going from common to niche and quite simple to very complex.
What is interesting about many kinks is that they can be traced back to some experience, idea or observation in your past: your kink's origin story!
If you're open to share this origin story with us all this is the spot to do so!

I'll start with a simple innocent one (more to come if this catches on):
Most of us enjoy fancy, sexual/sensual clothing or just a particular clothing type. For me this is wedge heels, I like them all but light brown cork or rope wedge would be my favourite. This stems back from a huge crush on a teacher in my high school days. And in summer time this teacher would often show up in skirts and wedge heels. I was right in the middle of my sexual awakening so this apparently activated some neurons in my pubescent brain. I copied many of her outfits at the time, she thought it was cute and I don't think she realised I had a crush on her at the time.

I wonder what would have happened if my teacher had started wearing clown shoes.

 

[Chalarm]

I always felt my interest in embarresment and embarressed characters was started by watching multiple movie scenes in which a character would be caught naked or put into embarressing situations. Think the invisible women in fantastic four having to take her clothes off before suddenly turning visible again, or the scene form the 2000s charlie's angels when one of them is running around naked hiding behind props. Whenever those sequences would happen I always felt a bit of empathetic embarressment alongside a blooming sexual sensation. The kink was only cemented when I found multiple sites dedicated to showcasing ENF scenes from movies and other media.

 

[Mommy Otaku]

Hoo boy, I got so many kinks that it's hard to explain. I'll start off with something fairly simple.

Hentai, doujinshi, fanfic and fandom RP's might not be a proper kink but it's something I enjoy a lot. I'm a weeb and I've been a huge anime fan ever since I saw the old DiC dub of Sailor Moon as a kid back in the 90's. I had crushes on a LOT of anime, video game, and movie characters when I was younger and I still do even as a 40 year old woman, lol.

 

[Alan23]

I always felt my interest in embarresment and embarressed characters was started by watching multiple movie scenes in which a character would be caught naked or put into embarressing situations. Think the invisible women in fantastic four having to take her clothes off before suddenly turning visible again, or the scene form the 2000s charlie's angels when one of them is running around naked hiding behind props. Whenever those sequences would happen I always felt a bit of empathetic embarressment alongside a blooming sexual sensation. The kink was only cemented when I found multiple sites dedicated to showcasing ENF scenes from movies and other media.

Chalarm, I kind of share this kink too, to the extent it's my main one. Or, more widely, wardrobe malfunctions of any kind. I think it's a mix of the fact that the victim is often revealing something I "shouldn't" be seeing, mixed with the way it makes her feel weaker, more helpless, and embarrassed. I find a woman is far sexier suffering "social embarrassment" such as being caught with the zip of her pants undone or in the act of pulling up her saggy pantyhose than naked, or forced into a hard core situation with a ball gag in her mouth and her wrists cuffed. It somehow seems more realistic and everyday.

As to the origins of my fetish, I can date it back to an earlier age than most such things develop, and recall two incidents in particular, both stemming from that wonder of our age, television.

I should mention that like a lot of kids I tended to lie down on the floor to watch, and of course as a side effect of this one's penis is pushed against the floor, making an erection more likely due to the friction involved. I was very young at the time, long before puberty, and both scenes I saw on TV had a profound effect upon me even though at the time I did not connect them with actual sexual feelings, since I had no idea at the time that sex existed!

The first was a TV ad where, at one point in the action, a man had to do up the rear zipper on a woman's dress. I presume, looking back, it took place backstage at a fashion show or something. The idea that the woman could not get her dress to do up and had to call on help really made me feel all excited inside, and wanting to help the woman and even do her zip up myself. I fantasized about the incident for years after, and even today if my partner needs such help, or I see a similar incident on TV or in a movie (or of course if it happens in a RP) I get horny!

The second I can actually put a name and production to. It was Ginger Rogers in a movie called, I think, "The Batchelorette." Ginger's character happened to get the hem of her skirt caught between two heavy packing cases, and was trapped, unable to move and, as a bonus, showing lots of leg. Her extreme embarrassment, which ramped up tenfold when the male lead offered to help her but proved a bit unenthusiastic about doing so really turned me on.

As I reached puberty I already knew my sexuality was a bit strange. While other kids eagerly devoured nudie mags they'd stolen from their brothers of fathers, I used to delight in seeing my female teachers' slips showing, or watching through the corners of my eyes as they discreetly hitched up their pantyhose, and in fact clothing being out of adjustment and female embarrassment became the twin pillars of my sexuality.

I used to seek out TV ads for clothing using the "before and after" theme - ie, a woman with baggy hose of her bra strap slipping off, only for the problem to be corrected when she bought the brand being advertised. There are quite a few such ads on YouTube these days, but then I had to assiduously seek them out! Even today, anyone who offers to play a helpless damsel who suffers constant wardrobe malfunctions has a pretty good chance of getting a yes from me!

 

[FlufferMailbox]

I think in a sad way my incest kink came from not having a loving family and pretty bad parents. So the idea of someone who not only loves you but EXTRA loves you was always appealing to me....

Though it's also taboo and taboo is hot as hell so who knows

 

[Lockdown]

Interesting thread concept so I’ll bite.

Origin Revealed

I’ll choose a more obscure kink that I know not many people share which is (wholesome) impregnation. I know. I’m such a naughty man who gets his rocks off when a man and a woman love each other and conceive a child or children from their love. I guess that just makes me a hopeless romantic? Because I’m only interested in impregnation between a loving couple. It’s a turn off when it involves cheating, rape, etc.

So why is this even a kink? Without getting into to many details of my real life. I always wanted to be a father and have a family with a loving wife. But because of a disease I became infertile after treatment. Thankfully I survived but the desire to have a family still doesn’t go away. So I enjoy the kink by either reading about it or by writing.

I’ve only ever written with this kink as a major plot point once and the story is very enjoyable to me. But I’m also fine not including it since I usually fall in love with the story and characters more so than wishing to shoehorn my kink(s) into the story.

Besides that kink I’m pretty ‘vanilla’ compared to what I see in the forums, but I’ve also been told I’m not so who knows ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

 

[Wapato]

I'm interested in hearing about others, so I suppose I should post to bump this.

For myself one of my things is wanting to be able to just let go. In fantasy it can be delightful to be picked up and thrown around, but IRL women do not find it so enjoyable. At least in my experience. So I have to be a careful bull in the China shop.

 

[JimmyD]

Jeez... That's a bit tricky. I can think of several 'triggers'.

One was, and I think I was like... 9 or maybe 10? I found my dads stash of girlie mags. Mayfair was pretty big in the UK back then, and always had sexy ladies in them, BUt there was a cartoon... It had a busty girl tied up on a bed, I forget the joke even, but that image of the girl tied up really struck home.

Then I think The St Trinians movies (old ones) had a lot to do with my stocking fetish. though Benny Hill and Hot Gossip probably helped.

It all sort of got mushed up in my head and now I love to see girls in stockings, tied up!

 

[MarkMarc]

When browsing through the community I see a lot of us have a wide array of kinks, going from common to niche and quite simple to very complex.
What is interesting about many kinks is that they can be traced back to some experience, idea or observation in your past: your kink's origin story!
If you're open to share this origin story with us all this is the spot to do so!

I think that's a very good question! Actually, it's something that lately I've been wondering about myself... Since my biggest 'on' is army uniforms on the counterpart male character, I 'blame' my family for taking me to army open days/shows for years I feel that the whole army outfits charm just naturally found its way to my heart, probably amplified by some movies that were often played at home and army stories some of my relatives shared. Maybe the association with feeling safe, supported and being shown a kind of power.


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