This section will go over things I like to include in stories, including erotic fascinations.
It will be far from comprehensive, so feel free to ask about anything not discussed here.
Sexy Stuff I Like!
- Nudity! Nakedness! Unclothitude! In many ways, simple nudity is more interesting to me than sexual acts. Obviously, there's the sexual and aesthetic attraction aspect of it, but there's also the openness, the juxtaposition of confidence and vulnerability, and primality of it.
Sub-aspects include:
- Nudism as a character trait.
- Settings where nudity is seen as normal and acceptable anywhere. This would be a default preference, at least partially, unless the plot is explicitly about rebelliousness or going against a repressive society.
- Casual nudity.
- Public nudity, whether openly or covertly with a risk of being caught.
- Naked first impressions.
- Contrived nudity. Not forced, per se, but a scenario like a character is naked taking a shower and gets teleported somewhere by freak spacetime fluctuations or something. Or something like a character wants to enter a certain area but it's nude-only. They're free to turn back, but it's necessary to achieve their other goals.
- Clothing disparity. One character is fully dressed, one is fully naked. I'm not usually a fan of clothed sex, but this situation would be an exception.
- Exhibitionism. Public sex. Sex as a performance.
- Voyeurism. Somewhat to a lesser extent. More like stumbling onto someone bathing outside and watching them, as opposed to going around intentionally trying to creep on people.
- Outdoor sex in general.
- Contrived intimacy. Two characters have to have sex for some pressing reason. Again, not directly coerced. A magic ritual might require a sex act and the characters may have to overcome hesitancy to be intimate because they need to perform it for their own reasons.
- Orgy scenes!
- Polyamory. It doesn't necessarily have to be in a story that's focused on two characters, but in general I prefer non-monogamous relationships. This is my default setting, so if you want a monogamous romantic relationship it's important that you specify that's what you want so I can shift gears.
- Toys and other accoutrements. This includes stuff for light BDSM play.
- In general, I'm turned on by bodies I find attractive. So the best kinks are ones that enhance this for me. Whether gentle acts like kissing and massages, rougher acts like biting and spanking, just about any interaction that just needs two people and their bodies enjoying each other is peak for me.
Other/Maybe
- Altered states of consciousness. May be achieved by drugs, magic potions, or hypnosis. I have to emphasize though that this is only something I will engage in if either both partners do it, or the one being sent into a different state (usually one with less inhibitions and more sex drive) is doing it consensually and fully aware of what might go on. I find the idea fascinating, but the specifics are why this is a maybe.
Iffy
- Anal. I don't personally care for it, and it's the main reason I'm iffy on pairing two characters with cocks together. I am, however, more open to writing it recently, especially if it doesn't have to be included in every single scene.
- Sexual assault and abuse. This is a complicated one. Part of it is I just don't really feel like playing a rapist most of the time. And even when it comes to dubcon, I don't like playing the kind of character that would initiate. (What can I say, I want my character to be wanted. I like to play and play against enthusastically slutty characters who want all the exhibitionistic hedonistic sex they're going to be having). Even with certain plot ideas I have where this might be featured, I don't know how long I'd feel invested. However, I've had a rising interest in hurt/comfort type stories, so if there's an interest in playing out something abusive where I can play another character that can come in to offer support and something more positive, then that'd be cool.
- There are a lot of other things I'm really iffy on, and my willingness to include it depends on how much I like my partner and feel like we're gonna be friends, how often it's going to show up, etc. Examples: I'm not particularly turned on by tentacles, but could probably have fun writing a tentacle scene for someone I really vibe with. Lactation? Again, not something that pops by boner, but I don't have an issue with it here and there. Foot stuff? I actually like feet as much as any body part to be honest, just don't be weird about it.
- Incest. Only if it's consensual and only if it's sibling or cousin or otherwise of a same generation or age range. Basically no one that could be considered a parental figure. That gives me the ick.
No
- A lot of fetishes, tbh. My NO list when I tried doing an F-list was so long. Extreme stuff. Stuff like scat, vore, sexualized gore, the sort of thing I see in most people's NO lists.
- Exaggerated body part sizes. One of the few things that isn't intrinsically repulsive but is still a hard off for me. No boobs the sixe of prize-winning pumpkins. No meter long cocks. And if, say, I play a character with a really huge penis (I do have a couple), the size should be handled realistically (i.e. it's probably not likely to fit unless you're playing an eight foot tall amazon).
- Anything pregnancy related. I know this is a big thing for people, but it's a complete no for me. I don't even want to reference things as being risky. Consider all my characters canonically sterile if it requires an explanation.
- Cheating. It's... just a personal heart-string puller of mine. So it's a complete no-go.
One more thing...
- Really emphatic dom/sub dynamics make me hesitant. I'm not really either. Might be bad experiences, but I associate subs with high expectations, low reciprocity, demanding intuitive perfection while offering no guidance, explanation, or contribution as to what they need or want.
- I can't deal with overly passive characters, characters that are obstinately shy. They can be hesitant but at some point need to be able to both consent enthusiastically AND initiate things sometimes. This is ten times worse when my partner won't discuss it. This is something that really poisoned an otherwise really awesome and memorable longterm roleplay I had.
- That said, don't feel I won't play against ultra subs (or ultra doms). I just need partners able and willing to work with me on it and talk with me so I feel confident I can deliver what you're after and also get what I need.
Do I have any content warning needs?
- No, there's nothing I need to avoid for mental well-being reasons.
Appendix A : About Me
I don't actually look this hot.
Name: Dawnifer D. Jellyfish
Age: 37
Sex: I wish
Gender: Non-conforming, or whatever you care to perceive me as
Pronouns: "They" is fine, but I don't really prefer any
Location: Minnesota, USA
Occupation: Library Technician, currently studying for my MLIS
Hobbies/Interests: Drawing, redheads, physical books, roleplaying, sequential art narratives, video games
(esp. fighting games, metroidvanias, and sandbox rpgs), nude mods, Finland, PAWGs, board/card games, mythology, places that are outside but still have running water, erotica of any format, LEGOs, miniatures, cosplay, DIY projects
TRUE FACTS ABOUT DAWN
- When a mystic plays the flute, a cobra comes out of a basket. When Dawn plays the flute, Cobra Commander comes out of a basket.
- Dawn is allowed a saving throw against Power Word Kill.
- Dawn can ride her bike whenever and wherever they damn well please.
- Dawn's patronus takes the form of André the Giant.
- Dawn can slay vampires with nothing more than a What-Would-Jesus-Do bracelet and a sunny disposition.
Actually Factual True Facts About Me
- All my favorite bands come from Finland.
- I own more books than there are Pokémon.
- Animals instinctively trust me.
- I volunteer at a local anime convention and a queer community library.
Favorites
Foods: Pizza
(esp. pepperoni), radishes, kiwis, baked goods with rhubarb
Animals: Weasels, jellyfish, spiders, sharks, axolotls, crows, hermit crabs… I like animals, okay?
Pokémon: Sneasel
(both forms), Gengar, most dark or poison types
Fonts: Cambria, Papyrus, Exocet
Music: Metal! Especially female-fronted symphonic metal bands. But most other kinds too.
Countries/Cultures: Ancient Egypt, Finland, Australia, Japan
Benefits of Befriending Dawn
- Excellent conversationalist with a very pickable brain.
- High Grade Dad Jokes. Terrible pick-up-lines. Lord of the Rings memes.
- Baked Goods (I can't give them to you obviously but I will eat them in your honor)
- Custom Artwork (Favorite canon characters? Your OCs? You? Whatever, I always like suggestions.)
Thigh Pics?
I roleplay primarily because I want to make friends. Otherwise I would just write stories on my own. I foremost desire to find partners who wish the same, who want to form some kind of connection beyond having our characters dick each oth–
ahem, I mean, dick
around with each other.
I don't expect to be best blood brothers with anybody, but developing an actual friendship with me and initiating conversation with me regularly will lead to better and more fulfilling roleplaying.
I at least ask you to be open to it. If you're abjectly
against this sort of thing, then I'm not sure our interactions are really worth my time.
Things I'm
keen on:
- Art and photo sharing, mostly for inspirations. Feel free to share memes too!
- Music sharing! What are you currently listening to that's giving you vibes?
- Deep 3 a.m. type thoughts and philosophical conversations. I tend to have unique takes. Though some of that's due to my sense of reality having eroded heavily so they're not always coherent.
- Friends to be horny with. I'm always excited to make friends who want to talk about sexual topics, mostly since I've had very few of those. I don't have a sex life to speak of, but we can talk about sexy fantasies or share porn with each other that's got us horny lately. This is something I won't bring up unprompted since it's a more personal/sensitive thing, just mentioning here that I'm interested in case someone else vibes with it and responds.
- General geeking out about fiction or special interests. Watching documentaries you found fascinating? Love nature, history, geography? I'm interested in just about everything.
- Mutual learning. Have things you want to look into, skills you want to learn, topics to research, and want a learning buddy to do it with? Look no further!
A sampling of some of my drawings. Yeah, they're mostly naked. I can show off full versions if asked.
That's all for now. Take care!
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