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- Oct 12, 2017
What are your opinions about marriage as it exists and functions today?
Are there things you would change about it legally(like, signing the contract and how it is dissolved, etc.)?
How do you define relationships that are healthy?
If two people have been together for a long time, do you think they should get married?
I'm of the opinion that relationships should be allowed to be more fluid in our day and age than restricting them to "I have to be with one person for the entire rest of my life." I am not the same person I was at 18, 25, or even 32. I think it's nice if you've found someone to go on this journey with, long-term, who grows with you. But I've had relationships, people I loved, during the different phases of my life and I don't think it means I'm broken simply because I haven't been with one person for many many years. I look upon those experiences with both fondness and regret but ultimately have decided the life I would have had if I stayed with each is not who i am now and not who I wanted to be. I mean, I think it's okay and healthy to live in the now and appreciate what someone does for you and what you can do for them in return, and accept that the future may or may not include them as a part of your journey to find fulfillment. And there's nothing wrong with being with someone for many years, growing and changing together. I just think it's outdated to get the law involved.
Are there things you would change about it legally(like, signing the contract and how it is dissolved, etc.)?
How do you define relationships that are healthy?
If two people have been together for a long time, do you think they should get married?
I'm of the opinion that relationships should be allowed to be more fluid in our day and age than restricting them to "I have to be with one person for the entire rest of my life." I am not the same person I was at 18, 25, or even 32. I think it's nice if you've found someone to go on this journey with, long-term, who grows with you. But I've had relationships, people I loved, during the different phases of my life and I don't think it means I'm broken simply because I haven't been with one person for many many years. I look upon those experiences with both fondness and regret but ultimately have decided the life I would have had if I stayed with each is not who i am now and not who I wanted to be. I mean, I think it's okay and healthy to live in the now and appreciate what someone does for you and what you can do for them in return, and accept that the future may or may not include them as a part of your journey to find fulfillment. And there's nothing wrong with being with someone for many years, growing and changing together. I just think it's outdated to get the law involved.