Fx Male Soft, Simple, Specific. Easy.

[Sync]

20MAY23 Status: Currently seeking

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Hi and welcome to my remake of an old thread. With any luck you'll find something useful and inspiring in here. I can only hope.

DISCLAIMER:
I'm a male in real life who's looking to write a female role. Why put this out in the open? Because I know some folks aren't comfortable with a guy writing as a gal, especially in sexual situations. So now an informed decision can be made. Note that I absolutely do not have an issue with you if this knowledge makes you uncomfortable - I'm just being up-front about it.

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Okay…if you've made it past the Disclaimer, then we can maybe get into the other stuff that request threads normally contain.

About Me (no particular order)​

Ghosting. Not a fan. I've gone to the trouble of putting this thread here with the expectation of people putting in the time to read and respond; I'm going to do you the courtesy of acknowledging your effort if you take the time to respond. Likewise for story-telling: if we start writing and real life is getting in the way, that's fine. Just let me know.

Communication. I'm going to be up-front about this: I failed Telepathy 101 in high school. That means I cannot read minds. Apparently others passed this class, because somehow the expectation is out there that mind reading exists. What does this mean for you and me? It means that I can't address an issue, fix a problem, respond to your thoughts, or acknowledge your delays, if you don't tell me about them first. It goes both ways, of course: I don't expect you to be able to read my mind, either.

Posting Rate. I'll be honest: I'm generally not quick at posting to stories. There are a number of factors involved in this, but the upshot is that if you're wanting someone who can reply daily, or every other day, you and I aren't going to be a good match. Sometimes I can only muster up the energy to post once a week. I might get lucky and get a few replies out a week. Other times it might be longer than a week between replies. This also feeds back into point #2 above.

Literacy. I tend to write 3-5 solid paragraphs per post. Likewise I tend to use descriptions instead of pictures. Writing is an act of imagination, and I like to use mine when I'm reading and writing. Sometimes I write more, sometimes a lot more; not often do I write less. I don't expect the same from you, but I do like quality of posts, and stuff I can work with. I try my best to make my posts readable by proofreading, spell checking, and taking care of grammar. I'm not perfect, nor do I expect you to be – but making your posts readable is a big plus. Text speak belongs in mobile phones, just so you know.

Writing style & location. I only write in the third person, past tense. First Person works for some, but not for me – it creeps me out a little, to be honest (if we're writing in First Person, I never know if I'm addressing you or your character, and I don't want to be addressing you when we're writing a story – especially in sex scenes). Also, I only write on the BMR site, with no real preference for PMs or Threads (but I'll admit I do find PMs a bit easier for tracking what I have and have not responded to). You want to write off-site? That's great, but it won't be with me.

Face-claims. Real photos or 3D art works just fine for me. Hand-drawn might be acceptable. I can't come at anime-style, though. Celebrity images are fine, so long as you're not wanting to write as or against the actual celebrity (eg: me using Victoria Justice's face for MC is fine; me writing as Victoria Justice is not).

About You (no particular order)​

This is a little easier, I suppose. You should be:

At least vaguely literate. I'm not asking for novella-grade replies, but give me material to work with. If 2-3 paragraphs is your limit, that's fine – as long as they're meaningful. Proof-reading and spell-checking are great (I know, that won't catch everything, and that's fine). One-liners are not.

Respectful of my boundaries and limits. This should go without saying, and I'll do the same for you.

Communicative. I don't necessarily mean that you give me an OOC post to accompany every IC post, but keeping in touch is always a good thing. It lets me know what your thoughts about the story are, if you're going to be away for a few weeks, if you're no longer interested in the story…handy stuff like that.

Open to developing the story. We're collaborating, right? Can't do that if only one of us is pushing the story along.

Who/what you are behind the keyboard? I don't care. My interest is in whether you can help me craft the story I'd like to write.

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Writing Samples.
Yeah, they're probably handy. It's also probably easier for me to simply provide links to a few stories I've done in the past, so you can see how I tend to write. Note that this is not setting up any expectations for future stories, though.
Scouts of the Inquisition (Alvis & Sync)
A Light in the Darkness (Madam Mim & Sync)
Student of Dune (DarkAngel & Sync)
What Happens on the Cruise… (Sync & Andi) (currently in progress)


Kinks.
Yes, I have an F-list. I finally got around to updating and "correcting" it. The tl;dr version to my f-list is that I rather prefer the lighter, fluffier, softer, vanilla end of the scale.

I'm being deliberately vague about it because specifics tend to tie people down. Overall, though: if it's likely to be considered a darker element, I may not be into it or willing to consider it.

Likes & Dislikes​

LIKES: Vanilla sex; Age differences; Anatomical reality/correctness; Creampies & Internal Cumshots; character growth; Romance; Gentle seduction & teasing.

DISLIKES: Most BDSM stuff; Master-Slave, Dom-Sub dynamics; pain/torture and related things; stuff that belongs in the toilet.

So...after all that, what am I actually wanting here?

The Core: What I'm seeking​

First-up, I'm looking for something long-term. We can approach something as a short-term story, then decide to keep going, but I'm in this for the Long Haul.

Settings-wise, I'm reasonably flexible: Modern, Medieval Fantasy, Sci-Fi, Historical, Alternate Universe/Timeline, Slice of Life. I can write well enough in any, given a bit of prep-work and planning. Clearly, Modern Slice-of-Life is going to be easiest, as I'm living in it. I can work in some fandom universes (Mass Effect, Dragon Age, Star Trek are my top three), but I'll only write OCxOC characters; I won't write as a canon character, nor against a canon character in a leading (ie your) role. I will happily include canon characters in cameo roles, though.

The story I'm wanting to tell…? Also relatively simple (I think, anyway). I want to write the story of a young female as she starts the journey of exploring and realising her sexuality. She'll be aged anywhere from 16-17 to her mid-twenties, and she'll be the younger of the two main characters. She may have knowledge of sexual matters, but little experience – this story will tell how she turns her knowledge into experience. Don't confuse innocence with naivete, here.

You should also know that I'm not expecting or wanting that MC will go from Virgin to Slut in 2.5 seconds. You've got to get her to give up her innocence first, and she may be reluctant to do that. I'm looking to do a Slow Burn story, including teasing and seduction. MC's innocence is in your sights? You're gonna have to do at least a little work before you get the chance to claim it. Get her ready for it; don't assume she already is.

Appearance-wise (especially for MC): I'm not a fan of piercings or body art. Earrings and navel rings are fine, but no more. Small and tasteful tattoos can be okay; sleeves are, to me, ugly. MC will tend to be more petite; she definitely will not have an ass the size of a picnic basket, nor will she have boobs that are larger than basketballs. Those things just aren't attractive or appealing to me, sorry.

Potential pairings & scenarios​

So now that I've finally gotten to this point, how do YOU fit into that tale? Are you her boyfriend? Her father? Her father's friend? Her best friend's older brother or even father? Maybe a teacher at school or college? Are you a farmhand eyeing off the farmer's daughter? Maybe you're a company CEO checking out that cute young assistant you just hired? Could be that you're a noble warrior adventuring with a lovely young priestess? So many possibilities we can discuss, as long as they fit the general theme I'm wanting to write.

Possible pairings (my role is underlined):
Teacher x Student
Boss x Employee/Secretary
Single Parent x Babysitter
Cousins
Uncle x Niece
Underworld Boss x Indentured Servant
City Boy x Country Girl
Knight x Princess
Sugar Daddy x College Girl

Note that the above pairings are only suggestions, and is not an exhaustive list; other pairings will certainly be considered, subject to the above considerations.

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Am I done?
Yeah…I think that's about covered everything I wanted to put up. Hopefully I haven't bored you to tears (although if you have been bored to tears, I'm surprised you're now at this point of the thread ).

With any luck (I know, this is a very specific and niche request) I've captured your interest; feel free to shoot me a PM and let's see if we can make something happen.

 

[Sync]

Bump (first time in 2 years! yay!)