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Who has the cure to a broken heart?

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ashlee_babe

Super-Earth
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Jan 21, 2009
I have just broken up with my boyfriend and we have decided to be friends but it hurts. Anyone has advice for curing a broken heart or any funny anecdotes?
 
Chocolate.
Raspberries.
Girls day out.
Bubble baths.
Movies of all kinds - just not romance.
A day out shopping.
Reading a book.
Writing.
Hanging out with friends.
Cuddling with a teddy bear.
And I guess a good cry never hurts.
 
Yes crying as been a constant since last night. I got two hours of sleep too. I do not think chocolate would help much since he always bought it for me. Its just too many memories. I need moonshine and a oiled up man. lol
 
The best thing is just to keep yourself busy. Go out with friends, play video games, read books, watch TV. Anything to keep your mind off of him. Right now the wound is still fresh (so to speak), so distracting yourself would work best.
 
Yea, I'm so not good at giving advice right now... but I think I might help with the man thing.

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Sorry, but this is the only one I could find in my photobucket.

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Just stay away from him for a bit, think abou tevery flaw he has then look at the eye candy all around you. Keep doing what you love even if you twoonce did it together, make new memories to help cover the ones you have with him.

The whole reason I have my man now is that when my ex left me I could see how bad he was and that the whole time I had know this sweet, loving, funny guy.
 
If'n ya wanna ask me for what I think about it ash, just do what everyone else has said. Spend some time with yourself, friends, get shitfaced (not really, but the thought counts), giggle like an idiot, play some tuneskis, sit down with a book, play some video games, go out for a walk or better yet...

Dedicate about three hours of daydreaming. Just think about something else for a change instead of thinking about what it was you did or the guy did and move on with your life, man. Besides, dwelling on the past is never good for anyone.

Once you've done that, begin the day anew. Leave the past exactly where it is and let everyday from there onward begin with YOU.
 
My thing is I hatebeing alone. I had been single for four years prior to this man and he is very sweet and kind. He is going to be a hard act to follow. You know the first love and all. Its just the fact that everyone is hooking up and I'm not. We are going to be friends I just feel like its hard for me to really think about me when I feel like being just with me makes things worse.
 
sings "its all about da hooking up"

Danyo Cummings.....anyway...

most people hate being alone, that normal. and after a break up??? even more so. but no matter what time does heal what your feeling....just don't forget the moments that made it special. every moment you spent together had a special meaning even if you didn't see it then....worrying over bills, washing dishes....all those moments that you didn't really think about made up the little things that all relationships need.

you can decide it was all for nothing because your alone now, or you can decide that it was everything to you for a good part of your life. a part of you that you will always cherish and remember. Dosent mean your always gonna be hung up over him (im sure hes a nice guy) and never gonna be able to move on, but just that you have dealt with losing him and are moving past it.

sooner or later the hole in your heart will close up.....dont let it stay open....because that would be disrespecting what love is all about....the fact that it hurts you this much means you feel just that much about him....imagine when you find the person that you marry and are with for the rest of your life.
 
There is no cure for a broken heart. Never has. Never will be.
Unless time counts. That's about it.

Read a book. Stay away fro romantic ones, even though that's extremely hard to find these days.
Bookstores are crawling with Twilight-like novels. -shakes fist-

Bubble bathes work, too. -smile-
 
I hate to admit it but I do like romance novels. I have been fine since late this morning. I only cry when I am at home alone. Its getting better though, I know this is good for me and him. We are good friends who happened to date for a little bit. As for the marriage thing, I am not sure that's for me ever. I am not the supermodel type and men do not see me that way, the ones I like that is. LOL.

Chocolate and bubble baths are fun without a break up.Thanks for listen everyone and giving up some advice. I have been able to have a day with only cry for about ten hours. I am getting better.

Here's something I heard before I think from a movie:

There are three kinds of love.
Love, something that takes months to get over
Good love, which takes years to get over
And then there is great love. A love that leaves you wondering what-if we were still together. Leaves you thinking about that person for the rest of your life.
 
No one's the supermodel type, hun. Absolutely no one.
And if a guy can't get over that fact, oh well. : D
I think you look beautiful without being a twig.
'Sides, gatta have some cushion for the pushin'.

Srsly, tho'.
It'll pass with time. Just keep yourself occupied, and you should be good to go.
 
Plus me and him are talking and getting back into our friends mode. I am just being told to not talk to him. I may be stupid for it but he is a friend and needs to have friends too
 
I think talking to the person is the best way to solve heartache.
And, if you guys can become friends, that just makes it all better.
'Cause you're that much stronger.
With, or without, the feelings from before.
 
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