Paying for RP & Porn

[Dreamless Reality]

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Question:

I’ve noticed a lot of popularity around websites like OnlyFans and Patreon in the last couple years. Although paying for Porn has been around forever, it seems like these websites make it easier to cater to the audience and actually foster a more intimate experience. Sure you could watch free porn, but would it change your mind if you could pick out specifically what you wanted to see?

As an avid roleplayer I love hearing about my partners desires and crafting something with them we both enjoy. If someone were to apply this concept with an OnlyFans page, or a similar platform - could it work?

I realize plenty of people do this already over discord and skype and what not, but realistically i think it would be fun to have the same platform as bluemoon where you can craft a scenario with a partner but then decidedly one of you (or both) could play it out in real time either via pictures or videos.

Would you pay someone to play out your fantasy?



I would

 

[Dirty Fingers]

In Australia prostitution is legal and yes I have gone to brothels and hired escorts.

Ive visited sites like Charuebaye and that doesn't appeal to me. For a start the women sit around waiting for the money to hit a certain amount which I get but they fail to be engaging in the proces, some just sit around even ignoring their viewers.

I've always seen fantasy play as very personal and intimate more so than inter course itself. So I would prefer a partner who not only gets me but also gets the fantasy in the same way I do. When you pay someone they tend to play it out in a rather generic manner so I'm cautious about paying for that kind of thing.

One of my kinks is CFNM and I'd love to play some kind of game via webcam with a woman that involved me having to get naked while she remains clothed or even just chat while I'm naked. I've done similar before and it's fun.

So yeah making fantasies real is a thing for me.

If you don't mind me asking, are you female? It's usually men who talk about stuff like this so if you are female it's an uncommon desire .

 

[Crimson Lion]

There actually are people who do this... I knew this girl who would dominatrix as wonderwomen we worked In a restoraunt together. She really did look like wonderwoman. Apperantly dominated by a amazon princess is a big kink xD but she did it IRL... I mean you would have to be really desperate for that fantasy to settle for porn not the real thing while there are high-class sexworkers who have a price for anything.

Not to mention, if you are a kinky person more than likely you will try to find your other side to be the same and there is a lot of opertunity for fantasy play there

 

[Dreamless Reality]

In Australia prostitution is legal and yes I have gone to brothels and hired escorts.

Ive visited sites like Charuebaye and that doesn't appeal to me. For a start the women sit around waiting for the money to hit a certain amount which I get but they fail to be engaging in the proces, some just sit around even ignoring their viewers.

I've always seen fantasy play as very personal and intimate more so than inter course itself. So I would prefer a partner who not only gets me but also gets the fantasy in the same way I do. When you pay someone they tend to play it out in a rather generic manner so I'm cautious about paying for that kind of thing.

One of my kinks is CFNM and I'd love to play some kind of game via webcam with a woman that involved me having to get naked while she remains clothed or even just chat while I'm naked. I've done similar before and it's fun.

So yeah making fantasies real is a thing for me.

If you don't mind me asking, are you female? It's usually men who talk about stuff like this so if you are female it's an uncommon desire .

I never knew sex work was legal in Australia. That’s awesome! What are the brothels like?Are they well managed? Do you have a hard time finding a partner you like? Is it expensive? I have so many questions haha.

I’m a young lady in the states with a high sex drive, we’re not that rare!

 

[Dirty Fingers]

I never knew sex work was legal in Australia. That’s awesome! What are the brothels like?Are they well managed? Do you have a hard time finding a partner you like? Is it expensive? I have so many questions haha.

I’m a young lady in the states with a high sex drive, we’re not that rare!

Yep although it is strictly regulated you can't legally be a street walker for example. To be an escort you have to have what is basically a licence to do so and a registration number unless you work for an agency.

The brothels vary, some better than others. They all have that suggestive brothel look and lots of red lol. Most have similar rules and of course they have to follow the law. But once you are in the room with the woman she can if she likes go outside of that.

I have walked out of a few places at times because I didn't like the selection. In Australia we have an expression for incompetence "Couldn't organize a fuck in a brothel" well I guess I am guilty of that lol.

Prices vary anything from $180 for an hour right through to $1000 plus an hour but that is rare and usually the escorts charge in excess of $500.

Ask whatever you like via PM if you prefer.

Oh I know women can have high sex drives, I was more surprised about you willing to play, that part is different to me. I have questions too!

 

[Tanakalian]

In The Netherlands prostitution is legal too, even more, the girls have to fill in a tax return every year and declare VAT on ever transaction. Every city and village has some form of red light district, although the most (in)famous of them all, that of amsterdam, is slowly being shut down, thanks to too many tourists.

I for one would never pay for anything like porn or roleplay. The moment a site goes to pay-only, I'm gone. I just haven't got the money for it, but even if I had, I stil wouldn't.

 

[Torack]

That would be a rather interesting concept. I like crafting stories, but I can see how paying privately for RPs and for other favours could be done for making ends meet in a way. Personally though, I wouldn't go for it. Because, at least in my case, the whole RP scene is for writing and making some pretty great stories along the way, with some occasional heat thrown in.

A video description, or pictures would kind of take away from that experience. But that's just in my personal case. To each their own, though!

 

[Dreamless Reality]

That would be a rather interesting concept. I like crafting stories, but I can see how paying privately for RPs and for other favours could be done for making ends meet in a way. Personally though, I wouldn't go for it. Because, at least in my case, the whole RP scene is for writing and making some pretty great stories along the way, with some occasional heat thrown in.

A video description, or pictures would kind of take away from that experience. But that's just in my personal case. To each their own, though!

I also like crafting stories! I guess I imagined a service like this would be separate from traditional literary roleplaying. I guess my fantasy is to be able to tell a couple a specific scene I want them to play out, or maybe just a couple photos of a girl/boy in a sexy costume for their character.

 

[Dirty Fingers]

In The Netherlands prostitution is legal too, even more, the girls have to fill in a tax return every year and declare VAT on ever transaction. Every city and village has some form of red light district, although the most (in)famous of them all, that of amsterdam, is slowly being shut down, thanks to too many tourists.

I for one would never pay for anything like porn or roleplay. The moment a site goes to pay-only, I'm gone. I just haven't got the money for it, but even if I had, I stil wouldn't.

Too many tourists gawking into the windows and taking photos? Or more a gentrification effect where there are too many families now and the hookers ruin the image?

I also like crafting stories! I guess I imagined a service like this would be separate from traditional literary roleplaying. I guess my fantasy is to be able to tell a couple a specific scene I want them to play out, or maybe just a couple photos of a girl/boy in a sexy costume for their character.

Things like that have always been around. Back in the 80's and early 90's phone sex was popular, I knew a woman who did that from her apartment. I was there a few times that she would have a call. She was pretty convincing she would say she was undressing playing with herself and I believed her even though I could see she wasn't lol.

Webcam sites also provide fantasies. The thing is that chemistry plays a part time needs to be invested if you want to find someone who really does it well/the way you would like it.

If you want to direct couples try Chaturbate there are lots of couples on there, no idea what it would cost but most will do what it takes to make the cash.

 

[Torack]

I also like crafting stories! I guess I imagined a service like this would be separate from traditional literary roleplaying. I guess my fantasy is to be able to tell a couple a specific scene I want them to play out, or maybe just a couple photos of a girl/boy in a sexy costume for their character.

Putting it like that, I can see how it would offer a whole different experience. Or even maybe enhance the experience of a narrative if the person on the other side agreed to cosplay their character or play out a scene from an RP. At least it would be pretty interesting.

Also with the whole phone-sex line thing. I could see how that would fit in as well with everything else.

 

[Dreamless Reality]

Putting it like that, I can see how it would offer a whole different experience. Or even maybe enhance the experience of a narrative if the person on the other side agreed to cosplay their character or play out a scene from an RP. At least it would be pretty interesting.

Also with the whole phone-sex line thing. I could see how that would fit in as well with everything else.

Exactly what I was thinking!! It would be so fun to incorporate some real-life elements to a role-play. Or even if it's a one time session where you pick someone you like and tell them you want them to act like your pet or whatever you're into at the time. I'm sure people could get very creative.

I'm horrible over the phone in general, so I don't think I'd be very good at phone sex. I would definitely pay to hear someone tell me what I want to hear, though.

 

[Tamaya]

I mean technically you can sell anything. If someone is willing pay for it, you can charge for it. And more often than not there is at least someone willing to pay for anything. I mean people are paying to watch virtual cam-girls now, so...

 

[Tanakalian]

Too many tourists gawking into the windows and taking photos? Or more a gentrification effect where there are too many families now and the hookers ruin the image?

Many young (twenties/thirties) men (mainly) from foreign countries (UK/US) think that the only place to get weed and sex in the Netherlands is amsterdam. And with flights getting cheaper by the day and hotel-stay as well. Or rather 'hotel', Airbnb, they are flocking to amsterdam like bees towards honey.
And that's the kind of tourists amsterdam doesn't want. because they're drunk and stoned, most of the time. What amsterdam wants are families, who visit the Anne Frank house, the Rijksmuseum, the Van Gogh museum and spend big bucks in expensive hotels and restaurants. So they started with a rule that you have to be an inhabitant of the Netherlands to buy weed. And they're closing down the red light district.

I loath the place with a passion, by the by. Its (real) inhabitants are obnoxious and arrogant and definitely not friendly.

 

[Dirty Fingers]

Many young (twenties/thirties) men (mainly) from foreign countries (UK/US) think that the only place to get weed and sex in the Netherlands is amsterdam. And with flights getting cheaper by the day and hotel-stay as well. Or rather 'hotel', Airbnb, they are flocking to amsterdam like bees towards honey.
And that's the kind of tourists amsterdam doesn't want. because they're drunk and stoned, most of the time. What amsterdam wants are families, who visit the Anne Frank house, the Rijksmuseum, the Van Gogh museum and spend big bucks in expensive hotels and restaurants. So they started with a rule that you have to be an inhabitant of the Netherlands to buy weed. And they're closing down the red light district.

I loath the place with a passion, by the by. Its (real) inhabitants are obnoxious and arrogant and definitely not friendly.

I can see how people from more restrictive countries would go a little berserk in such a place.

I always saw the idea of whores in windows as a little much. In Australia you could walk past a brothel and not know it was one most of the time. I like things to be a little more subtle than women sitting in windows. Yeah the place would not be one where your more friendly type would want to live either.

 

[Meego]

Paying for RP sounds like a good idea, honestly. It transforms it into a real service where you expect to get what you want. It should put paid to ghosting if nothing else. Ratings and reviews alongside a clearer list of wills / wonts would cover most of the quality and satisfaction side of things. I might even be able to find people willing to do First Person.

Of course it wouldn't stop friendly RP'ing nor should it. But I could see it being popular with some of us. The main issue would be the matter of how to pay. I know some people are willing to make traceable payments to services like OnlyFans or Patreon for various porn artists, but for many that would be a big concern. Find a way around that, (crypto currencies, maybe?) and it would probably be viable.

 

[Dreamless Reality]

Paying for RP sounds like a good idea, honestly. It transforms it into a real service where you expect to get what you want. It should put paid to ghosting if nothing else. Ratings and reviews alongside a clearer list of wills / wonts would cover most of the quality and satisfaction side of things. I might even be able to find people willing to do First Person.

Of course it wouldn't stop friendly RP'ing nor should it. But I could see it being popular with some of us. The main issue would be the matter of how to pay. I know some people are willing to make traceable payments to services like OnlyFans or Patreon for various porn artists, but for many that would be a big concern. Find a way around that, (crypto currencies, maybe?) and it would probably be viable.

Exactly along the lines I was thinking. There's a lot of compromise you have to do sometimes with role-playing that puts people off entirely sometimes and it just leaves both parties unsatisfied. If I had more time and someone was willing to compensate me, I would be more than happy - enthused even to play out a scene with them I traditionally probably wouldn't. That's just my take, though.

A lot of other websites introduce their own currency as well, like buying coins or gems, so it's a little more inconspicuous. I image something like that could be put in place if someone was uncomfortable with direct payments.

 

[WaveVelour]

Personally, I’d hate to see RPing turn into a paid event. I see it as a spare time hobby done just for fun. Among many players available on site, with the right partner, you can explore the themes you’re willing to write about anyway. And both sides could authentically have fun. Of course, if your partner isn’t really into some of the themes you’d like to play out, their involvement in the story would be difficult. If you pay someone to include them, or be paid yourself to cover certain kinks you normally wouldn’t, it might turn the whole experience, where two willing parties voluntarily share a story together, into something else. To have a section where members can advertise their RPs for a profit, on a site, despite its expenses, completely free sounds unfair to me. Of course, each to their own =) That’s what the topic made me think at the first glance. Sorry if I get the discussion wrong.

 

[Solo]

This thread has now been locked. While it was originally intended as a discussion, posts here have been deleted because they have gone into actively soliciting money for RP, which is against Blue Moon rules, specifically Site Rule #12 re: no soliciting onsite.