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These are my fave kinks, and I'm open to involving them in lines with minimal discussion.
GENERAL THINGS
- Mutual collaboration (the characters actively working on satisfying each other in the bedroom)
- Interracial relationships (no racism or raceplay/racial stereotypes)
- Naughty dirty talk (think "You naughty little minx" rather than "You fuckin' cumslut")
- Equal/"switch" pairings with constantly-shifting power dynamics (the pair swap roles according to situational wants/desires, engage in regular one-upmanship, share sex as just that [tossing aside the sub/dom dynamic entirely], etc.)
- Light foodplay
- Lingerie and outfit play (seductive nightgowns, uniforms, office wear [particularly if the female's wearing a pencil skirt], dresses [especially sundresses], heels, skirts, etc.)
- Female characters wearing nylons/pantyhose/stockings (whether with lingerie or hidden underneath a skirt/dress)
- Orgasm control/denial and sensory play
PARTNER CHARACTER TRAITS
✓ Sex positivism (a required element)!
Sex being something fun, enjoyable and uplifting for all parties. Explicit
knowing willingness (complete with a safeword for more intense/violent encounters),
clear enthusiastic consent between all involved parties (no one is outright tricked/manipulated or forced into sex [CNC being a
possible exception]), mutual collaboration (the characters actively working on satisfying each other in the bedroom), a feeling of familiarity and lightheartedness (not every sex act is some ritualistic moment, and not every moment of goofiness in the bedroom ruins the mood), that kind of stuff.
✓ Wholesomely loving relationships!
Pairings with a
healthy and generally positive union; they mutually support each other, and living
happily isn't the same thing as living boringly.
✓ Unholy Matrimony!
As an interesting counterpoint to the above, a match made in Heaven can also set the fires in Hell.
✓ Non-toxic rivals-to-lovers romance!
I'd love for our characters to be
spirited competitors with an
intense yet cordial rivalry (think the "iron sharpening iron" mentality), which can be their form of
courtship or flirting. They constantly bust each other's chops, but the
passion of said rivalry extends to their love life.
✓ Copious foreplay!
Our characters exploring the full spectrum of sex: oral (giving and receiving), caressing,
light edging, titfucking, spanking, massaging, kissing, groping, touching, licking, sucking, teasing, playfulness, etc. I like to draw this out and focus much more on this than the outright penetration itself.
✓ Lewd + story!
A little context is always appreciated. Whether simple, or detailed, there should be a reason the two characters have met and are indulging in each other. I do have a fondness for dialogue, and I tend to prefer something with build-up and chemistry, but sex is absolutely the ultimate goal.
✓ Clean footplay (nothing dirty, degrading, damaging or demeaning)!
Foot worship, massaging/caressing, footjobs, licking, kissing, toe sucking...basically, the male character giving focused attention to a female character's bare or nylon/pantyhose-covered legs and feet. I'd want this to be something
both partners are comfortable with and genuinely enjoy: Sexy teasing between lovers (or rivals), a welcome extension of foreplay and general body worship in fully savoring the female form, an exploration of something new that the recipient finds to be very much to their liking...that sort of thing.
✓ Double penetration!
✓ BDSM with a loving, caring vibe!
✓ Anal/assplay and rimming (all 100% clean at all times)!
✓ Female body worship in general (particularly breasts, legs, thighs and feet)!
✓ Battle Couples!
Two equally/complimentarily-skilled badasses who
love each other, challenge/motivate each other to be the best version of themselves, and
are mutually supportive/protective of each other.
✓ Aphrodisiacs (only to heighten sensitivity and pleasure, not cloud or blunt judgment)!
✓ Domme dissonance!
A dynamic where MC is ordinarily subordinate to YC, yet they maintain the pretense of their original power dynamic in the bedroom (such as MC calling her "Miss/Boss/Empress" and showing the "proper respect" even as she's at his mercy).
✓ No-nonsense, tough female badass x mellower/softer and equally competent male dynamic!
Pairings where the female is the more
assertively/aggressively badass one of the pair. She generally takes the lead, has no problem
making the first move or taking charge in the bedroom and can be
fiercely protective of her man (who'd be capable himself and not some painfully helpless/pathetic mess).
✓ Dark Action Girls who are reformed, but not tamed!
As Hozier puts it in his song "
Arsonist's Lullaby", they'll never tame their demons, but always keep them on a leash.
✓ Romantic discreet deviants!
Relationships where the couple has a very adventurous sex life, but are mature enough to keep it private and act like sane people out in public when dealing with friends, busy at work and occupied with saving the world. Basically, when our characters are kinky in the bedroom without it reflecting in their daily affairs.
✓ Light bondage!
Blindfolds, silk scarves, fuzzy handcuffs, a few droplets of hot wax dripping across the body while hands and soft/feathery/silken things glide across the skin unseen, using magic or powers during sex, etc. It's more about sensuality, teasing and playful eroticism rather than dominance or control, though I'm more than willing for this to be done in a tongue-in-cheek fashion.
✓ Gentle/loving femdom (100% consensual) and female-led relationships!
Femdom devoid of degradation, negativity and "abuse/humiliation/emasculation as subplot". Pairings where the female's satisfaction is contingent on mutual desire and bliss, built upon a healthy, equally loving and respectful relationship. MC would have no problem falling to his knees and worshipping his partner from head to toe. It wouldn't be so much about the male "submitting" as it is about him pleasing the female, stroking her uppish prideful desires while satisfying some of his own.
✓ Power Perversion Potential!
Using magic, powers, and/or superhuman abilities in sexual encounters
(no removal or subversion of free will). Think dampened chain lightning bindings to race through a lover's body and put a jolt in their system. An invisibility spell or cloak to allow for playtime in very public settings. Using heat or cold to tease or torment. Superspeed to create a whirlwind of passion in seconds flat. Some creative hydrokinesis for instant tentacle-play or to draw out an orgasm far longer than normal. Using the wind to caress someone from a long distance away. Some magic to make a partner's body hypersensitive before they go about their daily routine (and a second spell to ensure they can't resolve the issue themselves). A psychic or empath being able to project some very XXX imagery or physical sensations to their partner. That kind of stuff.
✓ Rough loving passion!
Biting, whipping, scratching,
Interplay of Sex and Violence, fight-fucking, electric toys,
Destructo-Nookie...I'm fine with this in a line as long as general consideration and
sensual aftercare (if needed) for the other party are present. Pounding someone into the mattress—or against a wall—
without dehumanizing them, you know?
✓ Erotic peril and damsel-in-distress kink/play!
I'm also interested in campy/erotic DiD scenarios with a campy Saturday morning villain cartoon feel and tongue-in-cheek—even sweetly kinky/fluffy—vibe where the male "inflicts" pleasure on the "distressed damsel" to
tease and (enjoyably) please her into submission. Copious caresses, kissing, fondling, blindfolds, ropes (especially if the bonds have special qualities such as psychoactives, weakening, electricity, or otherwise supplementary effects), spanking, teasing-and-denial, strip-teasing, sensory play, gentle domination, possible use of sex toys, seduction, (perhaps) forcefully-given pleasure to weaken her will, aftercare...that sort of thing.