*fistbump* Dude..
Same. I'm even in a SW Discord group where it looks like 80% are LGBT, but still nothing's going on.
I don't have the time or wherewithal to start a MxMish group, but if one sort of naturally forms, I'm in. At this point, I wouldn't even have really specific standards for it as long as it's not a fandom I don't know or unavoidable furries.