.... myeah. anyway - I have written, co-written and RP'ed for several years, but I'm relatively new to BMR. I've always found that OOC, or even IC, outside-of-story discussion is a great way to pick the brain of any potential partner, find out what character they have, find out early if they are the type to lack any and ghost you, whether they are just a fake or can keep up with you Lit-wise. The first few I had didn't lead to anything, thankfully, but my last four stuck because we are at the same level, technically-speaking, and understand communication is essential in using each other as soundingboards. All four RP's I have since striking literary gold are wild, exciting and extremely inspiring on a deeper level, because we feed off of each other. So, naturally - for us, anyway - there is always a majority of outside-of-story OOC and IC discussion that I find most rewarding, in fact.