not looking for a roleplay, just someone to talk about fantasies and ideas with

Thought I had sent my message, but maybe not. I'm a 46 year old married guy and in much the same situation. I RP to make up for the lack of intimacy in my own life - porn doesn't really do it for me. And I've met some interesting people, can be much more fun (and much hotter) to just chat about ideas and fantasies. I have email, skype, yahoo or AIM, or there are some good, anonymous, confidential chat sites I use if it's the kind of conversation you don't want a record of. Anyway, if you're still looking, let me know.
Alex